Feminine Presence Coaching is for conscious success driven women who want to be respected and noticed in a bigger way. She is heart-centered, passionate and driven to succeed because she knows she’s meant to make a big difference in the world.
She’s in a constant battle with her self-doubt and feeling overwhelmed because she knows she is not living up to her fullest potential. Although she has immersed herself in learning and implementing proven strategies, she feels invisible in business and struggles with not having enough money to show for how hard she’s been working.
Most of us believe that to accelerate our success, we must learn more strategies, but the reality is your presence must always precede strategy to ensure long-term success.
You might be experiencing any combination of these things! What I know for sure is that in order to be successful long-term and excel in your business, relationships and life…Presence must precede strategy. You can keep applying and adding more strategies into your business plan and keep trying to add more leverage, but you will not gain traction or be able to sustain your momentum if you don’t learn how to cultivate presence before implementing strategy.
I don’t know about you, but there was time when I grew tired of playing small. I reached a place in my life where I wanted to be seen and heard in a bigger way in my business, relationships and life, but I was stuck in fear and not able to move forward with what I really wanted to do.
I set a clear intention to stop playing small and learn how to fully embody my personal power. To be seen and heard in a bigger way and excel in all areas of my life and this is what I want for you too – especially if you want to be a leader in some way, but your not making as big of an impact as you wan to make.
For years I was immersed in learning and implementing strategies, Strategies to build a thriving business, strategies to meet an amazing man, strategies to be increase my income and develop unshakable confidence in all areas of my life. Although I had learned about every strategy you could imagine, to ensure my success, I failed.
I failed because these strategies alone didn’t ensure my success in any of the key areas of my life. I was miserable and my self-confidence was at an all time low. My state of gloom and doom lasted for way too long until a BIG shift happened when I learned a very simple yet profound principle. That is that presence precedes strategy.
Your personal presence your feminine presence must precede any and every strategy. I am not saying that strategies aren’t important. We must have the right strategies in place to implement in order to get the results we desire; however if we are not in presence you will be climbing a mountain with only false peaks.
In regards to wanting to be respected and noticed in a bigger way and putting yourself “out there” to be seen and heard to inspire change – it’s essential that as women we learn how to come home within ourselves to increase our magnetic feminine presence.
I don’t know about you but, I have struggled with this place of wanting to be seen and not wanting to be seen. Finding the courage to come out of hiding is also something I have struggled with. I struggled with this showing up piece too and I asked myself many times, WHY is this when my higher purpose in life is to show up and be a positive role model for other women who are playing small!
How on earth was I going to bust through this barrier that felt just as scary as scaling the Himalayas? Here’s what I had to do first. I had to learn how to show up and be willing to be seen by myself, as well as witnessed by others, especially other women. Then the BIG shift happened.
By learning how to come home within myself and be in my feminine presence while being witness by other women got me out the deep rooted place where all fear seems to anchor you down. I was now free but what a paradox. I was hiding from myself, disconnected from my feminine essence and afraid of my own power.
My success didn’t start to unfold until I acknowledged what I was hiding from and did the inner work to show up and not bring my head trash, emotional baggage and mean girl drama; I had to own it and stop making excuses that blamed others for my part in playing small.
I had to figure out how to show up and play a bigger part in my life without losing myself in the process and this points back to that very simple yet profound principle I mentioned a few minutes ago. Presence precedes strategy and I want to be clear that what I am talking about is the embodiment of your physical and energetic presence.
There are women who can walk into a room and are noticed by many. They have an air of confidence about them that is attractive. There are others who frequently comment that, “no one remembers I was even there.” One has ‘presence’ and one does not. Presence makes people feel more attracted to you and trusting of you which, is essential to our success as women in a masculine dominated world.
Once I learned how to fully embody my personal power and be both feminine and powerful – everything in my life started to shift for the better.
I learned how to stop the struggle of feeling like I had to always push to be seen and noticed and I turned that push into attracting a great man into my life, more clients and great friends and a business that brings me great joy and abundance.
I changed my relationship with my fear and self-consciousness so it no longer stops me from moving forward no matter what the situation. And I began to increase my income because I increased my magnetic presence. And this is what I want for you too.
As a woman our personal presence and magnetism grows when we connect with our feminine essence. In pursuit of equality and power, however, many women have taken on a more masculine role. In their desire to be strong and independent, many women have shut themselves off from their softness, their sensuality, and the feminine energy that not only makes their lives more pleasurable and fulfilling, it gives them a radiant power—and is what men desire most. We have unwittingly closed down the ability to attract the healthy attention we want from men and women — without even realizing we have done it.
When a woman turns on her feminine essence, her whole life is transformed. She becomes attractive, receptive, and open. When she walks into a room, everyone present basks in the glow of her feminine radiance. She does not need to project a powerful persona to attract the respect and attention she wants. She is luminous, grounded, and powerful!
I’m excited to show you how to turn it on, and turn it up! Not simply because it is the most attractive force within you, but because it feeds you, feels SOOOO good, and is a gift that no one can take away from you.
I invite you to schedule a call with me where we will work together to uncover the number one thing that has been getting in the way of your own success. We will also identify what you are committed to putting into action for the next 30 days so you can prioritize and make it happen!
Let’s jump on a call and I will join you right where you are so you can stop playing small and remain connected to your BIG WHY AND PURPOSE. CLICK HERE to schedule your complimentary discovery call with me today!
Teena Evert is licensed therapist, professional coach, author and speaker. She helps frustrated soulful female entrepreneurs break free from relationship and money problems (both personally and professionally) so they can monetize their gifts, make a greater impact and serve more people in the world doing what they love.
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