You’re imperfect, and you’re wired for struggle, but you are worthy of love and belonging.— Brene Brown
A few weeks ago, I was driving back to Colorado after visiting family in Ohio and decided to talk a side trip and walk down memory lane at my alma mater – Wittenberg University, a liberal arts college in Springfield, Ohio
I was surprised to find out that the class of 2021 was graduating that same day! There were tables set up on the lawn, and a few soon-to-be graduates were walking around campus looking proud in their cap and gown. It was a beautiful day, a perfect day, for an outdoor graduation ceremony.
As I walked through the campus, I experienced a tidal wave of emotions as I remembered walking on the same paths, carrying a heavy backpack of books back in 1990.
Look at my success. I didn’t achieve it overnight. It has been the product of many years’ struggle, and every year, my times have shown gradual improvement.— Mo Farah
I reflected on how much I struggled throughout my college years. I did not feel prepared for the challenges. I felt like I was trying to climb a mountain without shoes, proper clothing, and a map. I lacked the life skills to cope with all the changes, from being on my own, juggling a demanding class schedule, and navigating brand-new social life.
I continued to stroll through campus, feeling the discomfort from the past and my younger self’s awkwardness, stress, and anxiety. I was flooded with the same emotions that I had felt 31 years ago.
I also felt the excitement I had for trying new things, discovering my interests, and meeting a diverse group of friends.
But the struggle was real, and to this day, I can go back to all the sensations in a heartbeat.
If I could go back and help support this young girl as she efforted through her college days, trying hard to fit in and not fail academically – I would have walked alongside her as she covered those paths.
I would have gently guided her by asking how she felt about herself and what was happening around her. I would have reassured her that she was intelligent, wise, and capable.
I would have let her know that she had a right to be there that she belonged. I would have talked to her about the challenges of adjusting to college life and given her tools to build the life skills she needed to excel.
I would have helped normalize her fears and uncertainty. I would have let her know that she wasn’t alone, that support was available and that she could lean into it whenever she needed to.
Yesterday I dared to struggle. Today I dare to win.— Bernadette Devlin
It is clear why my career trajectory has brought me to a place to guide others along their path.
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Teena, CEO Claim the Lead
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