You love each other. It just keeps hurting.
Same fight. Over and over. You pull away. They push. Or the other way around.
You’ve tried to fix it. You’re still stuck.
This isn’t a love problem. It’s not even a you problem.
It’s your couple system — and you can’t think or talk your way out of a flawed system.
But you can learn the skills to outsmart your nervous system.
That’s exactly what we do here.
These patterns started long before you met.
They don’t have to define you. How you fight, shut down, or pull away — those are old habits.
They came from how you grew up, not from who you are now.
The fight about dishes isn’t about dishes. The shutdown isn’t indifference. These are old wounds showing up in your relationship.
That’s what we work on here. New habits. Healthy interactions.
A partnership that actually feels secure.
More than just talking.
I combine neuroscience, 17 years of experience, and multidisciplinary training to help couples find their way back to a relationship they’d stopped believing was possible.
I work only with couples — busy, intelligent professionals who need a therapist who matches their intensity.
We work in real time, in the room, tracking what’s happening in your bodies — not just your words.
You leave with concrete skills and real relief, not just insight.
I’ve spent my career learning to help couples heal at the root.
Private-pay. Couples only — In-person Boulder, CO
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