You love each other. It just keeps hurting.
Same fight. Over and over.
You pull away. They push. Or the other way around.
You’ve tried to fix it. You’re still stuck.
This isn’t a love problem. It’s a pattern problem.
These patterns started long before you met.
How you fight, shut down, or pull away — those are old habits. They came from how you grew up, not from who you are now.
The fight about dishes isn’t about dishes. The shutdown isn’t indifference. These are old wounds showing up in your relationship.
That’s what we work on here.
More than just talking.
I work only with couples. I use two science-based tools — PACT and AEDP — that go deeper than most couples therapy.
We look at what’s happening in your bodies, not just your words. We work in real time, in the room, together.
I’m not just trauma-informed. I’m trauma-trained. I consult with Stan Tatkin, the founder of PACT.
This is a private-pay practice for couples who are ready to do the real work.
I’m a licensed couples therapist in Boulder, CO. I work only with couples — and I’ve spent my career learning how to help them heal at the root.
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